Relationship Tips...

Print this Page For Anyone Considering Leaving a Relationship or Getting a Divorce:  Here's How To Make The Best Decision Possible About Whether To Stay In or Leave Your Relationship...   Dear Internet Friend,  If you're unhappy in your relationship and you're considering leaving--then investing 5 minutes of your time right now to read the information on this web page could be one of the most important decisions you'll ever make and here's why... If we guess correctly you're in either one of two situations.  One-- you're unhappy in your current relationship and are trying to decide whether to stay or go.  Or two, you've already made the decision to leave and want to make sure you're making the right decision.   No matter which of these scenarios best describes your situation, you're about to discover some of the most important questions you need to ask yourself in order to make the clearest, most empowered decision possible about whether to Stay or Go.   By reading the information on this web page you'll also discover a powerful new resource that will give you fresh new insights into your current relationship.  No matter what your relationship is like now--we want you to know that a passionate, alive and connected relationship is possible for you or anyone else that wants one.  Our Little Secret... If you're feeling some uncertainty or doubt about whether you can really have a great relationship--- let us assure you that you can and we want to show you how and let you in on our little secret.  We are relationship coaches and authors Susie and Otto Collins. In addition to helping other people create outstanding relationships in our relationship coaching practice, we have a truly fantastic relationship with each other.   We don't say this to impress you, but to show you what is possible.  Because the truth is we weren't always in a great relationship.  You see, we know what it's like to be in a painful relationship. We were both in long term relationships that didn't work out. We've both been faced with the decision about whether to stay in or leave a relationship.  We've both been where you are. We know what it's like to be in a relationship with someone you love and still feel cold and empty inside.   If you're in a relationship that isn't working and you're not sure what to do, we'd like you to know that there is hope for a great relationship no matter how desperate your situation appears right now.  Don't Make The Same Mistake Most People Make When They're in an Unhappy Relationship...  A lot of people ( and couples) think that if they don't really focus on the issue of whether they want to stay in or leave their relationships--that the problems will magically somehow heal themselves.  They won't.  If you don't invest some quality time now in taking a true, honest and truthful look at the state of your relationship, you could stay stuck in this place of indecision for a very long time.  It's amazing to us how many people are content to stay stuck in this place of indecision about their relationship--wasting so much precious time when they could be experiencing an incredible relationship filled with love, passion and joy.  We encourage you to take an honest look at your situation and feel how much pain you've been feeling about this relationship.  You need to decide that you're not willing to live without the love, passion, intimacy, tenderness, connection and yes, even sex any longer. You have to take the first step to create the kind of relationship and love you want in your life.  We're not suggesting that you should leave your current relationship or marriage and head out looking for the new love of your life. Only you can make that decision.  What we are telling you is that life is too short to go through it without having the love you want in your life that's possible for all of us.  It's important that you take some time now to gain the clarity about your relationship so that you'll be able to ask yourself openly and honestly whether you'll be able to heal your current relationship or not.  You deserve to have love, passion and connection in your life.  But, in order for your life and your situation to get better, you have some big decisions to make about your relationship and we'd like to help... That's why we wrote the book "Should You Stay or Should You Go?"  We wrote this book to help people like you spend less time living with question of whether to Stay or Go and help you gain the clarity for what's right for you.  I am so happy I purchased your book. I can not tell you how much I have learned from this. Not only about my relationship but my life. It has been a real gem to have this. Discovering the truth about what I am really feeling inside about this relationship has been so exciting!  No more denying, keeping it